Fareham Counselling Centre · Hampshire
Counselling & CBT for Obsessions & Compulsions Hampshire
Practical support to loosen the grip of OCD patterns — in Fareham or online across the UK.
When a thought will not let go
Everyone has the odd "did I lock the door?" moment. But for some people, a worrying thought gets stuck. It keeps coming back, and the only way to quieten it seems to be checking, cleaning, counting, asking for reassurance or going over it again and again in your head.
The relief never lasts, and the habits can start to take up hours of your day. Counselling, CBT and hypnotherapy for obsessions and compulsions in Fareham, or online, can help you break the loop and get your time and your peace of mind back.
Common obsessions and compulsions
People come to us from Fareham, Portsmouth, Southampton and Gosport with all kinds of patterns. You might recognise some of these.
Unwanted thoughts are very common. Having a thought does not mean you want it or that you will act on it. The fact that it upsets you usually shows how much it goes against who you are.
Try it: the doubt loop
Pick a thought, then choose what to do with the urge. See what happens when you give in to it, and what happens when you let it pass. This is the idea behind exposure and response prevention (ERP), a key part of CBT for OCD.
The urge is telling you to act now. What will you do?
Every ritual brings a moment of relief, then the doubt comes back stronger.
In real life, letting the urge pass takes practice and support. Your therapist will go at your pace, starting with small steps.
Is it OCD, or just the way I am?
You do not need a diagnosis to get help. If thoughts or habits are taking up a lot of your time, causing you distress, or getting in the way of work, family or relationships, it is worth talking to someone. If you think you may have obsessive compulsive disorder, our OCD therapy page explains more, and your GP can also help.
How therapy helps you break the loop
Every plan is different, but most people move through steps like these.
Understand your loop
Map out your thoughts, urges and habits together, so it all starts to make sense.
Change how you see thoughts
Learn that a thought is just a thought, and that you do not have to argue with it or obey it.
Small, steady steps
Gently face the things you avoid and resist the ritual, one small step at a time.
Keep it going
Build tools and calm you can use on your own, so the changes last.
Therapy for obsessions and compulsions in Fareham
On your free call we will help you choose the right approach, and the right therapist, for you.
CBT and ERP
The most researched treatment for obsessions and compulsions. Practical, structured and at your pace.
About CBT
Counselling
Space to explore what sits behind the anxiety, such as stress, change, loss or a strong sense of responsibility.
About counselling
Hypnotherapy
Deep relaxation, often combined with CBT (Hypno-CBT), to lower the anxiety that drives the urges.
About hypnotherapy
EMDR
Helpful when the worries began after a difficult or frightening experience.
About EMDRYou may also find our pages on OCD, anxiety and health anxiety helpful.
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Questions about obsessions and compulsions
What are obsessions and compulsions?
Is this the same as OCD?
Does having an unwanted thought mean I want it?
What is ERP?
Can hypnotherapy help with obsessions and compulsions?
Do you help children and teenagers?
How much does it cost, and can I have sessions online?
You can get your time back
A free, confidential 15 minute call. Tell us a little about what is going on, and we will find the right therapist for you.