Fareham Counselling Centre · Hampshire

Counselling & CBT for Obsessions & Compulsions Hampshire

Practical support to loosen the grip of OCD patterns — in Fareham or online across the UK.

When a thought will not let go

Everyone has the odd "did I lock the door?" moment. But for some people, a worrying thought gets stuck. It keeps coming back, and the only way to quieten it seems to be checking, cleaning, counting, asking for reassurance or going over it again and again in your head.

The relief never lasts, and the habits can start to take up hours of your day. Counselling, CBT and hypnotherapy for obsessions and compulsions in Fareham, or online, can help you break the loop and get your time and your peace of mind back.

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A thought is not a fact. And it is not a reflection of who you are.

Common obsessions and compulsions

People come to us from Fareham, Portsmouth, Southampton and Gosport with all kinds of patterns. You might recognise some of these.

Checking locks, taps or switches Washing or cleaning more than you want to Needing things to feel "just right" Counting or repeating Asking others for reassurance Replaying conversations in your head Unwanted thoughts that upset you Avoiding places, people or objects Overthinking "what if?"

Unwanted thoughts are very common. Having a thought does not mean you want it or that you will act on it. The fact that it upsets you usually shows how much it goes against who you are.

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Try it: the doubt loop

Pick a thought, then choose what to do with the urge. See what happens when you give in to it, and what happens when you let it pass. This is the idea behind exposure and response prevention (ERP), a key part of CBT for OCD.

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The urge is telling you to act now. What will you do?

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Every ritual brings a moment of relief, then the doubt comes back stronger.

In real life, letting the urge pass takes practice and support. Your therapist will go at your pace, starting with small steps.

Is it OCD, or just the way I am?

You do not need a diagnosis to get help. If thoughts or habits are taking up a lot of your time, causing you distress, or getting in the way of work, family or relationships, it is worth talking to someone. If you think you may have obsessive compulsive disorder, our OCD therapy page explains more, and your GP can also help.

How therapy helps you break the loop

Every plan is different, but most people move through steps like these.

Understand your loop

Map out your thoughts, urges and habits together, so it all starts to make sense.

Change how you see thoughts

Learn that a thought is just a thought, and that you do not have to argue with it or obey it.

Small, steady steps

Gently face the things you avoid and resist the ritual, one small step at a time.

Keep it going

Build tools and calm you can use on your own, so the changes last.

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“A superb therapist! Very professional and supportive. I made huge gains in my wellbeing thanks to him and his team.”

Gary, Fareham
No judgementWhatever your thoughts are about
From £72Counselling. CBT and hypnotherapy £90
In person or onlineFareham, Hampshire, or by video
Ages 7 and upAdults, children and teenagers

Questions about obsessions and compulsions

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What are obsessions and compulsions?
Obsessions are unwanted thoughts, images or doubts that keep coming back and cause anxiety. Compulsions are the things you do to ease that anxiety, such as checking, cleaning, counting, seeking reassurance or going over things in your head. They bring short-term relief but keep the cycle going.
Is this the same as OCD?
When obsessions and compulsions take up a lot of time or cause real distress, this is often called obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). You do not need a diagnosis to get help. Our OCD page explains more.
Does having an unwanted thought mean I want it?
No. Unwanted thoughts are very common, and having one does not mean you want it or will act on it. People often feel most upset by the thoughts that go against their values. Our therapists will not judge you, whatever the thoughts are about.
What is ERP?
Exposure and response prevention (ERP) is part of CBT. With your therapist's support, you gently face the things that trigger your anxiety and practise not doing the ritual. Over time your brain learns that the anxiety passes on its own. It is always done step by step, at your pace.
Can hypnotherapy help with obsessions and compulsions?
Hypnotherapy can help lower anxiety and build a sense of calm and confidence. It is often combined with CBT as Hypno-CBT, so you get practical tools to break the loop as well as deep relaxation.
Do you help children and teenagers?
Yes. We work with children and young people aged 7 to 17, as well as adults. Parents are welcome to call first to talk things through.
How much does it cost, and can I have sessions online?
Counselling starts from £72 a session, and CBT and hypnotherapy are £90. Sessions can be in person in Fareham or online by secure video, at the same price. Your first 15 minute call is free. See all our prices.
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